Hello everyone! First of all, I sincerely apologize for my lack of posts lately.
Finals are just about here and the stress level is about to hit an all time high for the semester. Anywho, with the all the school work, extracurriculars, and such, it got be thinking… the ultimate college exam is actually just one question: how does any student master this art of balance? And I’m not just talking about school and work. It’s difficult to find a balance with:
1) what you think you can do and what you really can do
2) what you want to do and what you should do
3) what you know you can do and what others know (or think) you can do
I’ve struggled with balancing in the past, especially when interning during the fall semester my junior year. I had the perfect class schedule for an internship; I was free Tuesdays and Thursdays. I thought, okay, I can finally intern during the school year. My mother has always been set against me interning during the school year for the fact that she did not want me to be overworked, overstressed, and lose focus in school. I sought out an opportunity to intern in New York, but this would mean I would have to commute twice a week. I had talk to friends who had commuted and they advised me that I could handled it. So of course, I listened to them and not my mom.
Proving that I could handle such a thing was more of my goal. Admittedly, pride got in my way.
The fact is, I couldn’t balance everything. I was always exhausted and was always in “catch up” mode in my classes. The lesson learned here is obvious; listen to your mom! To be fair, you cannot always foresee what you can or cannot handle. In that stage in my college career, I was too caught up in interning right away and getting as much experience possible, that my studies suffered.
I cannot tell you how much respect I have for those who work, intern, are involved in their organizations, and are kicking butt in school. Kudos. If you know how to balance, great. But if you’re not sure, calm down. Your focus should be on school anyways.
You’re opportunity will come. School is just preparation for something bigger…
Sometimes you’ll find me quoting things I hear on Oprah lol… so here I go: “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” I say, prepare prepare prepare. Study hard, but continue to find that right balance. Think of school and the rest of your life experiences as practice exams. With life experiences, contrary to popular belief, failure is always an option. But you have slow down to realize the lessons learned. The opportunities will come as soon as you can answer that question and master the art of balance.
Good luck on your exams everyone.
NEXT UP: Thinking that you’ve prepared enough, but you can’t find the “right” opportunity (the current conundrum I’m faced with)